Of course, though, you must 100% apologize when you unintentionally harm the other person’s feelings — and don’t use it as an excuse to be nasty to others. It’s not unusual for Scandinavians to be friends with their exes once sufficient time has passed, and the ache of the breakup has subsided. Again, this might be confusing if you’ve solemnly sworn to detest each of your former partners — so...